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Meet an Artist Fellow: Photographer Mikayla Herrick

Mikayla Herrick is a gifted photographer and Washington native who stayed at Getaway Mount Adams in the end of December 2019 as part of our Artist Fellowship Program. Here at Getaway, we’ve been captivated by Mikayla’s eye, by her ability to frame a photo and choose the best moments to capture.

Though her work speaks for itself, here’s what she had to say about her path as a photographer and her Getaway experience.

“My husband, Brice, bought a camera while we were dating and he would often go out and shoot with other people who were into photography. It was right around the time Instagram was starting to become ‘the thing.’ Shortly after he bought his camera, he started showing me how to use it from a technical side. I’ve always had an eye for photography, so learning how to capture images correctly with an actual camera made it that much more enjoyable. I started second shooting weddings with friends, and before I knew it, I started my own business of wedding photography in 2017! Photographing people—people on the greatest day of their lives—has become an absolute joy and honor. It’s the most intimate and exciting thing I get to be apart of.”

“My Getaway experience was so wonderful. It was quiet, slow, restful, happy. My husband and I got the opportunity to take time to be intentional with being away, and slowing down. We enjoyed a fire each day, played countless games of cards, went for walks, a scenic drive with random stops along the way, took naps, read books, cooked meals, put away our phones. The way the tiny homes were set up were perfect. We had everything we needed, and nothing that we didn’t. We felt like we had our own space, but we also felt safe knowing there were others close by doing the same thing. The cabins were beautiful—so aesthetic! It was easy to just be, to sit without anything to do. I think our souls crave such stillness and rest, and that’s what we experienced.”

Regarding where she finds inspiration, Mikayla says, “Inspiration is everywhere, constantly. For me, I play out how I would photograph every space I encounter. Of course, I also find it through other photographers’ work (Instagram). I am constantly inspired by what other creatives come up with. I also really enjoy looking through old wedding albums, or old photographs from over the centuries. There’s something about timeless pieces that bring about inspiration.”

“My favorite way to be off is spent sleeping-in, reading, watching movies, napping, eating out—all with my husband. Weekly we spend twenty-four hours intentionally resting and away from work. It’s important for us to take time to unplug from social media and our phones, at large. I recently listened to a podcast and the guest said something that will stick with me, ‘I want to show up for my actual life.’ How often do we mindlessly, endlessly scroll on our phones—when we could be showing up and living our actual lives? Don’t get me wrong, it’s incredible what we can do and who we can connect with over our phones, but I would argue it’s incredibly more important to be present and living fully alive in our real lives.”

 Feeling inspired to capture some photos in nature? Book your Getaway today.

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Getaway Presents: BookSparks’s Winter Must-Reads

In our modern over-stimulated world, we believe it’s important to take time to disconnect from our screens and recharge. Being sucked in by a good read is a great way take a break from your phone.

Every Getaway cabin comes with a selection of books, but just in case you want to bring your own, our friends at BookSparks shared with us their list of winter must-reads. Whether  you prefer memoirs or thrillers, this list has the perfect book for you to curl up with when it’s chilly outside.

The Night Olivia Fell by Christina McDonald

The Night Olivia Fell

In this heartbreaking new thriller from Christina McDonald, a mother is forced to come to terms with her daughter’s near-death encounter, while tracking down the truth about what happened to her. Abi has been told that her daughter attempted to take her own life, but when she finds suspicious bruises on Olivia’s wrists, she refuses to accept the police’s explanation. Things get more dire when Abi finds out that her daughter is not only brain dead, but pregnant, with doctors keeping Olivia on life support to keep the baby alive. Racing against the clock to find out the truth, Abi’s finding will reveal an evil truth no mother should ever have to face.

Black Leopard, Red Wolf by Marlon James

The perfect winter read for Game of Thrones fans, Marlon James’s new novel brings readers a masterful mashup of fantasy, history and folklore. Tracker is a hunter who has always insisted on working by himself, but when he’s armed with a rag-tag search team and given the task of finding a young boy who has been missing for three years, he’ll come to find that this job will be unlike any he’s ever embarked on before. With the appearance of deadly creatures and deep-rooted secrets, Tracker realizes that finding the boy could mean life or death for him and his entire group.

The Night Tiger by Yangsze Choo

Night Tiger

Two young and ambitious souls find themselves on a thrilling new journey in The Night Tiger by Yangsze Choo. Ji Lin will do anything to help pay back her mom’s debts and when she finds an unsettling item in the dance hall where she works, it sends her on the kind of adventure she has always craved. Meanwhile, 11-year-old Ren is doing his best to track down an item from his late master. As Ji Lin and Ren’s paths collide, they’ll learn the true devastation of love and the hope that can bloom in even the darkest of places.  

The Dreamers by Karen Thompson Walker

A mysterious and intriguing illness plagues the pages of this new release by New York Times bestselling author, Karen Thompson Walker. When a young college student finds that her roommate won’t wake up no matter how hard she tries, it becomes a case for doctors who can’t seem to get to the bottom of the mystery. As more and more people fall victim to this disturbing illness, everyone goes into survival mode, doing what they can to avoid the sickness. But as doctors monitor those who have been affected, they soon realize that their brain function is consistently increasing leaving everyone to wonder what the victims are dreaming about.

Maid: Hard Work, Low Pay, and a Mother’s Will to Survive by Stephanie Land

If you’re a memoir fan and haven’t picked up Maid by Stephanie Land yet, it’s time to add it to your Amazon cart. This touching true story follows the life and trying times of a young mother who did everything she could to get by and provide a full life for her daughter. Leaving the idea of college and becoming a full-time writer behind, she took to working as a maid and taking as many classes as she could at night to further her journalism dreams. Through heartwrenching dedication and harrowing experiences, Land learned what it really means to be part of the working class in the United States. In this new memoir, Land details the horrors of trying to get by in America—a story that not many are brave enough to tell.

Grab your favorite read, curl up, and lose time in its pages. The best place to do just that is right here at Getaway.

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Wellness Tip: Find the Constellations

Based on feedback we’ve received from our guests, one of the best parts of a Getaway is the opportunity to stargaze far from city lights. This makes sense as an astonishing 99% of people in the United States and Europe can’t see the Milky Way from where they live due to light pollution.

Few things make us feel awe — that sense of wonder mixed with a touch of both fear and reverence — like being immersed in nature. When we stare out across a vast ocean or canyon, take in the panoramic view from a mountaintop, or gaze up at the stars, we recognize that we’re a very small part of something much greater than ourselves.

This can be an unnerving feeling, but as researchers at the University of California, Irvine, have found, it can also make us better people. Further studies have found that in addition to inspiring awe, stargazing can also reduce stress and increase positivity. Here are some tips to keep in your back pocket on your next Getaway to help you find the constellations. 

Invest in a Red Flashlight

The warm glow of a red flashlight will give you enough light to see without ruining your night vision, unlike the bright glare of a regular blue-white flashlight, which forces your eyes to readjust every time you switch it on and off. 

Bring Binoculars

Especially if you’re just getting started, astronomers advise holding off on investing in a costly, tricky-to-use telescope. Instead, pick up an inexpensive pair of binoculars, which allow syou to see the sky in far greater detail than with the naked eye.

Be Strategic About Timing 

Crisp, cold nights are much better for stargazing than warm, muggy ones, when humidity creates haze in the air. And you’ll see the stars more clearly if you choose a night when the moon is waxing or waning, since a full moon’s brightness can wash out the pinpricks of sunlight.

“Find Your Park After Dark” With the NPS 

The National Park Service’s website provides listings of park-sponsored evening events, activities, and educational programming nationwide, along with listings for observatories and stargazing tips.

Get Help From Apps

With a variety of apps, users can simply point their phone cameras at the sky and instantly identify the stars, constellations, and planets overhead.

Need an escape to nature? Book your Getaway today.

Artist Fellowship | Guest Stories

Meet an Artist Fellow: Designer, Ade Ogbomo

Ade Ogbomo, is by day an elementary school teacher, but by night she’s a photographer, designer and digital creator. She’s the owner of GabeJade, an African accessory store. In June, Ade stayed at Getaway Piney Woods outside of Dallas as part of our Artist Fellowship program. Here’s what she had to say about her creative process, her connection to nature, and her time at Getaway Piney Woods:

On Photography

“When I started GabeJade in 2017, I decided I would need to learn photography in order to have consistent, quality photos so that my brand would stand out amongst others. When I picked up my first DSLR, it just felt right. It seemed like I was born to be a photographer. Learning photography for my brand and posting the images on Instagram helped me acquire photography clients and partnerships.

“There is nothing like natural light and photographing people/things surrounded by nature. The colors, trees, flowers, and lighting present in nature highlight beauty unlike anything else. I often plan shoots according to natural lighting.”

On Creativity

“Usually for me, coffee = creativity. I usually have my cup of coffee, open all the curtains in my home to allow natural light in and play some calm music to get my ideas flowing. During my Getaway, I did not need coffee, I did not need music. Just being in the middle of nature got my creative juices flowing immediately. The cabin was like a little think tank of ideas, it was the perfect environment for new ideas to flow. It’s definitely something I would suggest every creative do monthly.”

On Nature

“Nature brings balance and clarity—there is nothing like waking up early and going for a walk or just sitting on the balcony and watching the sunrise. It really sets a peaceful tone for the rest of the day. Waking up early and enjoying nature is a productivity life hack for me—it almost guarantees that I will work at an optimal level.”

On Disconnection

“At first, I was skeptical about going somewhere with no Wi-Fi and no TV, but surprisingly not having those things made the stay even better! The large window provided much-appreciated natural light and views, my dog LOVED just sitting and staring at the greenery right outside our cabin. I loved the serene feeling that enveloped me when I was surrounded by nature and the ability to enjoy it without interruption.

“During my cabin time, I was able to sit down and write some ideas out without interruption—being in nature, I felt less inclined to check my phone every 5 or 10 minutes. I have been studying copywriting and the incubation process, as well as branding/increasing brand awareness and during my stay, I was really able to dive in and finish a couple of books I had started on the topic. Being alone with my thoughts boosted my creativity and I was able to iron out the details for a couple of photoshoots and campaigns. This allowed me to return home fired up and ready to dive into new ideas and new angles of selling. Sometimes you just need to recharge—Getaway gives you that and much more.”

You can learn more and follow Ade’s journey by following her instagram account and checking out her website. Feeling inspired? Book your own creative escape today.

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An Interview with Zach Klein

If you’ve been to a Getaway cabin, you may have spent a few hours getting lost in the pages of Cabin Porn.

It’s a favorite book on our shelves, filled with gorgeous pictures and details of cabins from near and far. Just the perfect kind of inspiration for your own escape to nature.

We caught up with Zach Klein, the man behind the viral Instagram account turned bestselling book to talk about cabins and getting outside.

What sparked your initial interest in cabins?

I’ve always had a love for the outdoors. I never imagined that I would live in the city long term. I only moved to New York, because that’s where I could get a job, and I always assumed that I would eventually move out of the city.

How did you come to build your first cabin?

I was interested in building and in creating a place, which ultimately took me up to Upstate New York. I’m very interested in placemaking. To do it in New York or any city, there’s a high financial risk the zoning is less permissive. I was looking off the beaten path for a community where the cost of trying to make a place was within my budget

I had a girlfriend and had a part-time job in the city, so I wanted to stay relatively close to New York. I just started driving circles further and further out, eventually into Sullivan County.

What about cabins really attracted you?

What is really interesting about the time and place that we live in is that it’s more possible than ever to have a valuable job and work virtually. This also allows more people to do work they love and live anywhere they want. The paradox is that this work often causes us to stare at our screens all of the time. No matter where we are, urban or rural, we are staring at screens.

So to me, the cabin has come to represent an antidote to that “always on” lifestyle. You know, when I first went to upstate New York, I went totally offline. I went through this withdrawal, twitching, reaching for my pocket for my phone. And my phone wasn’t there and, what’s more, even if it had been there, there was no service. After being there for so long, there was a lot of pleasure in being offline, but it did begin to feel lonesome.

I began seeking ways to build community. I wanted to create a place with land to share together, and infrastructure in that place so I could experience that connection without being online.

Big Window

So how did the idea take shape?

I had a job one day a week in the city, and shared an apartment with my girlfriend there, but I spent 4 days a week upstate on 60 acres. One thing led to another, and I had an opportunity to build a new dwelling. So I started collecting new inspiration, looking at the history of off-grid architecture. I set up a Tumblr, and it took off. It stayed just a hobby for a long time.

How did that hobby come to be this beautiful book?

Growing up I assumed I would one day work for a newspaper, but coming out of college that very quickly seemed unrealistic to me. Still, I’ve maintained a love for print. At some point, we received an offer I couldn’t refuse, a chance to make a book with some of my friends. We made the book entirely ourselves. We wrote everything, shot about 40% of it with original photographs, and requested others from the Cabin Porn community. We traveled to each location and interviewed the cabin builders, learning their stories and how they came to possess the skills to make their own homes. This was in 2015. Initially, we thought that it was just going to be a one-off project, but love for the book endured and we decided to extend the book into a series.

In the first book we barely peeked inside the cabins, and in response, we received one question a lot: What does this look like inside? That was an inspiring creative prompt for us, there are a lot things to notice inside a handmade home. They are often made by amateurs so I love looking for maker marks, intentional or not. By that I mean, little touches to customize the home to their habits, or so-called mistakes during the process of how to build an aspect of the home. I love seeing how people adapt their project because they learned a new skill or made a mistake, and had to cleverly paper over it somehow.

What’s your favorite thing about cabins?

The thing that I love most about the cabins is how autobiographical they can be. When we build modern homes, they are rigidly planned and executed, and built to codes, and designed to be move-in ready. What I love about cabins and handmade homes is that people rarely finish them the day they move into them. Weather has changed, the season to build has ended, they run out of resources. People move into these cabins while they are still 75-80% done and spend the rest of their lives perfecting them. Interiors really reflect the times and habits of the person who made them. Few things please me as much as visiting a cabin from a family that’s been handed down. The different textiles, games, books. I love how these places can tell a story that gets preserved in amber in a way that city homes less often do.

What inspires you?

In my research, there was one piece of wisdom that has forever impacted me. In both books I’ve quoted Christopher Alexander, but I haven’t repeated this piece in the book and I’m paraphrasing here. He says that when people go to a piece of land, with the intention of building a home, they find the prettiest spot and stake out the 4 corners. Instead, we should be looking at the place that’s far from being the prettiest and use our human ingenuity to improve that place. The most beautiful spot took an infinite number of factors over an expanse of time and we shouldn’t interfere with that.

What advice would you give to those looking to integrate some of the Cabin Porn ethos into their lives?

My only advice is that going outdoors doesn’t have to be extreme. I think Cabin Porn has played a role in promoting this myth that to get outside means you have to go someplace remote – and that’s just not practical, and really not necessary. And I also think it’s far more enjoyable and pleasant to be outside with community and friends, rather than in isolation. I’ve tried it both ways and it’s just so special outdoors where you can be full humans with each other.

Check out Zach Klein’s new book, Cabin Porn: Inside here.

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How to Get Away: A Free Chapter

Before the Civil War, the Sabbath was the only time that most free, working Americans had off. In the late 1860s, while there were a few unenforced eight-hour-day laws on the books, most Americans worked 10 to 12 hours a day. In fact, the word weekend did not even exist until the 1870s. The first documented use of the word was in 1879, when a British magazine explained, “If a person leaves home at the end of his week’s work on the Saturday afternoon to spend the evening of Saturday and the following Sunday with friends at a distance, he is said to be spending his week-end at so-and-so.”

However, before the weekend, many workers were already taking an informal second day off. They called it “keeping Saint Monday”—skipping work to recover from drinking all day Sunday. The practice was so common that Benjamin Franklin once bragged that he’d gotten promoted simply by consistently showing up for work on Monday: “My constant attendance (I never making a St. Monday) recommended me to the master.” There’s even a 1793 folk song about it, “The Jovial Cutler,” which begins:

Brother workmen cease your labour,
Lay your files and hammers by.
Listen while a brother neighbour
Sings a cutler’s destiny:
How upon a good Saint Monday,
Sitting by the smithy fire,
Telling what’s been done o’ t’ Sunday,
And in cheerful mirth conspire.

In some factories, a protoweekend was created when factory owners traded a half-day off on Saturday in exchange for ending St. Mondays.
With the Industrial Revolution, fewer people farmed, a form of labor that had a natural stopping point at sundown. As laborers moved into factories, working conditions became harsher, and the workday became more regimented. With the growth of industrialism came the growth of the labor movement, which pressed for worker interests.

In 1884, the Federation of Organized Trades and Labor Unions called for an eight-hour day. When their demands were not met, they called for widespread demonstrations for “time for ‘what we will.’” They made buttons that read 8 hours for sleep, 8 hours for work, 8 hours for leisure. Some demonstrations turned violent. On May 4, 1886, someone threw a dynamite bomb in Chicago’s Haymarket Square when police moved to disperse labor-rights protestors, killing seven police officers and four workers. Eight anarchists were arrested and convicted of conspiracy, though no evidence was ever found connecting them to the bomb. (Four of the eight were hanged, one killed himself the day before his scheduled hanging, and the remaining three were eventually pardoned by the governor, who cited the lack of evidence and called the men victims of “hysteria, packed juries, and a biased judge.”) The high-profile trials made international headlines and kept the fight for time off at the forefront of public interest. The “Haymarket Affair” became an early catalyst for the movement, and to this day, organized labor advocates celebrate May Day each May 1 in tribute to workers’ rights worldwide.

Soon Jewish immigrants took up the fight, since their Sabbath was Saturday instead of Christians’ Sunday. When the first American factory–a New England spinning mill–instituted a five-day workweek in 1908, it was to accommodate Jewish workers. The practice soon spread to other factories.

The movement got a boost from Henry Ford, who responded to the labor movement’s push for an eight-hour day by instituting the practice at his car factories. He argued in business terms: If people were stuck in factories all week, they would not have time to take weekend road trips in his Model Ts. “People who have more leisure must have more clothes,” he told the press. “They eat a greater variety of food. They require more transportation in vehicles.”

In 1916, the government stepped in, requiring an eight-hour day for railroad workers. In 1919, four million Americans–about 20% of the industrial labor force–went on strike, demanding, among many things, more time off. During the Great Depression, it became more practical to limit the workweek, as fewer hours for each employee meant more people working at least some hours.

Americans responded positively to the shorter hours, and by 1938, half a century after the word was invented, the weekend was written into federal law when President Franklin D. Roosevelt signed the Fair Labor Standards Act, which phased down American working hours to a maximum of forty hours a week. The weekend went viral overseas, too: By the 1970s, every European country had a weekend and, at most, forty-hour workweek.

The protection of the weekend enshrined leisure as an American value. By the middle of the twentieth century, leisure activities were at the center of American culture. When you think of popular culture in the midcentury United States, what comes to mind? The beach, the drive-in movie, the bowling alley, the family campground—all venues of leisure.

Americans were so bullish on leisure that many experts thought the workweek would wither away. The economist John Maynard Keynes thought technological advancement would lead to a 15-hour workweek by the 2020s. A 1965 Senate subcommittee predicted a 14-hour workweek by the year 2000. In 1956, then-Vice President Richard Nixon was attacked for stating that a shorter workweek was “inevitable within our time.”

THE GREAT SPEEDUP
Nixon and Keynes were not wrong about productivity. American worker productivity has consistently increased since the 1950s. That increased productivity, however, has not led to fewer working hours.

In fact, the workweek has gotten considerably longer. Today the average American works 47 hours a week, nearly a full day longer than the 40-hour workweek for which their forebears fought. Worse, 18% of full-time workers work 60-plus hours a week. If trends continue, Americans will soon be spending as much time at work as they did back in 1920, before Roosevelt established the 40-hour workweek.

This is a uniquely American phenomenon. Americans work about 50% more than people living in Germany, France, or Italy. We also work more than the citizens of Sweden, Norway, the Netherlands, Finland, Switzerland, and Austria–all nations that, probably not coincidentally, rank higher than America on World Happiness surveys. We put in 122 more hours per year than Brits do, and we’ve even surpassed Japan, the famously workaholic nation that invented a word, karōshi, meaning “death from overwork.”

It’s not just that we are working nights and weekends. We are also overworking at work. One third of American workers eat lunch at their desks (yes, we are both sometimes guilty of this). Half of American workers report feeling they can’t get up for a break at all.

Even having kids is not stopping or slowing our drive to productivity. While France has 16 weeks of parental leave and Japan has 14 weeks, the United States is the world’s only industrialized nation with no federally mandated paid parental leave.

Mother Jones‘s Clara Jeffery and Monika Bauerlein call this “The Great Speedup.” In their 2011 essay on the topic, they described how economic output has roared back to prerecession levels while worker benefits have not. The recession was managed through “offloading”: “cutting jobs and dumping the work onto the remaining staff.” More than half of all workers surveyed at the time said that their job responsibilities had expanded, often without a raise in pay.

This is where the term speedup comes from: “an employer’s demand for accelerated output without increased pay.” As Jeffery and Bauerlein explain, speedup used to be a household word. “Workers recognized it, unions…watched for and negotiated over it…and, if necessary, walked out over it.” A 1921 dictionary of labor terminology explains that employers pushed speedups in multiple ways: hiring especially fast workers (known as “rushers,” “pacers,” and “swifts”) who received a secret bonus to scare other workers into speeding up; literally speeding up factory machines; and requiring workers to attend to two or more machines.

Charlie Chaplin presents an enduring image of the speedup in his 1936 film Modern Times, in which his mustachioed Little Tramp character tightens bolts on an assembly line. At the foreman’s orders, the conveyor belt moves faster and faster. Chaplin scrambles desperately to catch up, eventually throwing himself onto the belt in an attempt to catch the moving parts before they disappear down a chute. Inevitably, Chaplin gets sucked into the machine, where he is pressed through a series of grinding cogs. When he’s finally pulled back out onto the factory floor, he appears to have gone mad: He dances around, trying to tighten his coworkers’ noses with his wrenches. Seen one way, it’s hilarious, but seen another, it’s a scathing indictment of industrialized labor practices.

These days, Jeffery and Bauerlein lament, we no longer criticize such practices; instead, we celebrate the speedup as “productivity.” The “not-so-subtle implication” of rebranding the speedup as productivity is to ask overworked Americans, “Don’t you want to be a productive member of society?”

Jeffrey and Bauerlein document numerous disturbing examples of The Great Speedup in practice. One warehouse loader describes how, at his blazing hot distribution center, his employer has increased the order rate by 60%, requiring him and his colleagues to work longer. A hotel housekeeper explains that she has only 15 minutes to eat breakfast and can’t eat lunch because the number of rooms she has to clean per day has almost tripled. A mental-health technician describes how he and his colleagues, in addition to treating patients, have to answer phones and fill out logistical paperwork because their secretarial staff have been laid off. An air-traffic controller relates that a tenth of his fellow controllers have quit due to burnout.

The Great Speedup is throwing our lives out of balance. According to the OECD Better Life Index, we rank twenty-eighth among advanced nations in “work-life balance”–ninth from the bottom. Forty-one percent of us say we feel tense or stressed-out during a typical workday. More than half of us report being “burned-out.”

This stress is costing us. It’s making us bad at work–half of us say stress makes us less productive. It’s making us bad colleagues–more than a third of us report feeling resentful that our coworkers do less work than we do. With all this in mind, it’s no surprise that only 13% of people enjoy going to work.

VACATION CESSATION
It is not just our time off each week that is eroding; it’s our time off each year, too.

As Americans were fighting for the weekend, they were also fighting for summer vacation. “How Long Should a Man’s Vacation Be?” asked The New York Times in an all-caps headline in 1910. The full-page spread accompanying it was filled with answers from various “Men of Affairs,” prompted by a statement from President Taft calling for two to three months’ vacation per year for every American. Arguing that his countrymen “ought to have a change of air where they can expand their lungs and get exercise in the open,” Taft cited the example of Supreme Court Justice William Strong, who attributed his longevity to having taken “sixty days each year away from the people.” If we have vacation only two weeks annually, the president warned, we will “exhaust the capital of [our] health and constitution” and be unable to return to our work with “energy and effectiveness.”

Taft failed; the United States has never mandated paid vacation days. By contrast, the same year we mandated our minimum wage, the British Parliament mandated minimum vacation. Today, British employees receive 28 paid vacation days, while Americans are still stuck with none.

Employers are not voluntarily filling the gap for everyone. Almost a quarter of Americans have no paid vacation at all. Only a third of part-time workers have paid vacation, and about half of low-wage workers have no paid vacation.

Most Americans, on average, receive about two weeks of vacation a year, which is less than the minimum legal standard of 20 out of the 21 most-developed economies (you need a break, too, Japan!). The European Union sets a vacation floor at four weeks per year. France exceeds it by ten days, mandating 30 days of paid annual leave. The average French worker earns 37 vacation days, nearly a month more than the average American worker.

We don’t even use the limited vacation time we do have. Fifty-seven percent of us fail to take all our vacation time, abandoning hundreds of millions of vacation days each year.

It’s not just that we are bad planners and our vacation days sneak up on us; according to one survey, 40% of Americans actually plan to not use all their paid time off.

As a result, Americans end the year with nine unused vacation days, on average. That’s almost two lost weeks of potential vacation. And recent surveys indicate that trend is rising: The number of Americans who said they are taking a vacation in the next six months is at a 30-year low, with only 39% saying they planned to get away in the next half-year.

This decline is starkest in summer travel data. In July 1976, 9 million Americans took a week off. In July 2014, only 7 million did, despite there being 60 million more Americans with jobs today than in 1976. Two decades ago, four out of five families who stayed at Yosemite National Park stayed overnight. Today, the average visit is five hours long.

Despite the conventional wisdom that millennials are lazy, our generation is even more vacation-averse than our parents’. Fifty-nine percent of millennials, compared with 41% of our older coworkers, report feeling shame for taking vacation. Even worse, we are more likely to shame our coworkers for taking a vacation than our older colleagues are. Millennial bosses are worse, too–almost half of millennial managers say they “feel pressure to turn down vacation requests from the workers who report to them.”

About a third of millennials report being afraid that they are forsaking a promotion when they take vacation, and some studies indicate that they might not be wrong. A recent survey by consulting firm Oxford Economics found that about 13% of managers are “less likely to promote employees who take all of their vacation time.” Another study found that employees who gave up vacation days earned on average 2.8% more in the next year than employees who took their full vacation allotment.

According to the U.S. Travel Association’s “Overwhelmed America” survey, 40% of us don’t take all our vacation days because we worry about coming back to a mountain of work. Some of us try to square the circle by thinking we can solve for our post-vacation piles by carving out a few hours on each vacation day to get a bit done. One in four of us report being contacted by a colleague about a work-related matter on our time off. It’s no wonder twenty percent of Americans say they “never fully relax” on vacation.

THE CULT OF BUSY
While many Americans are forced into overwork by their bosses, others are voluntarily joining a “cult of busy.” Over the past few decades, being busy has become a badge of honor. As Mark Merrill, founder of the nonprofit Family First, puts it: “Somehow, we’ve equated busyness with value. We’ve equated busyness with importance. We’ve equated busyness with honor.” And when we find that our busyness is not making us happy, we just get busier to distract ourselves. Some have called this “work martyrdom”–finding salvation in suffering for our jobs.

We ran into this problem early on at Getaway. We’d committed ourselves to building a company that held work-life balance as one of its core values, and we were therefore surprised by how hard it was to get the folks who work for the company to quit texting us on weekends, sending us emails at all hours, and working too many hours in general. We thought as long as we said not to do those things, people would stop. We soon learned we had to set clearer examples, both by limiting similar bad behavior in ourselves (like not checking email after hours) and by actively discouraging it in our employees (like resisting the impulse to thank or praise someone who clearly gave up their Sunday to work). We now send a lot of emails to people who are on vacation that say, “Quit emailing!”

At the center of the cult of busy is the church of productivity. You can see the productivity craze in the rise of sites like Lifehacker, which offers an unending stream of tips and tricks for getting more things done in less time, or in “productivity gurus” like Tim Ferriss, who have gained followers by showing how you can “completely optimize” your life. One CEO described the productivity ethos so perfectly that it might as well be a Saturday Night Live sketch:

I’ve never left the office for food. I eat the same thing every day [an apple, almonds, yogurt, a salad…], and I never sit still to eat a meal. My ultimate goal is to create operating systems for myself that allow me to think as little as possible about the silly decisions you can make all day long—like what to eat or where we should meet—so I can focus on making real decisions.

It is worth noting that we never use productivity increases to do less work—it’s always to fit in more work. The push for more productivity further centers work in our lives, even going so far as to treat non-work as a deficiency rather than another mode of living. For example, as Steven Poole writes in The New Republic, we treat sickness as undesirable not for the fact “that it causes distress of discomfort” but rather that it “results in what is often called ‘lost productivity.’” When we say that businesses lost money because of workplace absences, Poole notes, we’re implying that “the business already has that money even though it hasn’t earned it yet” and, in turn, that “employees who fail to maintain ‘productivity’ as a result of sickness or other reasons are, in effect, stealing this as-yet entirely notional sum from their employers.”

The drive for productivity has gotten so ingrained that we’re even trying to be productively nonproductive, consulting Lifehacker for the most efficient ways to meditate, nap, or take breaks. Some productivity chasers take the practice so far that they actually spend more time optimizing their productivity than they do working. The eighteenth-century writer Samuel Johnson put the uselessness of such zealotry well:

Some are always in a state of preparation, occupied in previous measures, forming plans, accumulating materials and providing for the main affair. These are certainly under the secret power of idleness. Nothing is to be expected from the workman whose tools are for ever to be sought.

If productivity is indeed a church, its sacramental wine is Soylent, the “slurry of vitamins, minerals, protein, and carbohydrates” that twenty-four-year-old coder Rob Rhinehart created to be a “liquid food replacement.” The drink–which writer Adrian Chen described for Gawker as looking like a “thick, odorless, beige liquid,” tasting “slightly sweet and earthy with a strong yeasty aftertaste,” and resembling “the homemade nontoxic Play-Doh you made, and sometimes ate, as a kid”—was designed to provide everything a body needs to survive.

“I’m not trying to make something delicious,” Rhinehart told Chen. “It’s all about efficiency, it’s about cost and convenience.” The young founder lamented spending hours a day “buying and preparing food.” With Soylent, he has to spend only minutes. “Food,” he declared, “is a haven for reactionaries.”

Nutritionists have weighed in, pointing out that Soylent is not the one-size-fits-all fix it’s purported to be, because different people have different ideal nutrient mixes. It’s not really possible to fully optimize one’s diet, just like it’s not really possible to fully optimize one’s life.
Wise thinkers have pointed out that we join the cult of busy because we are running away from something else. Socrates warned us to “beware the barrenness of a busy life.” St. Thomas Aquinas warned of acedia, the “despair of listlessness”–jumping from one thing to another without purpose. When Samuel Johnson was not criticizing productivity, he was criticizing busyness:

There is no kind of idleness, by which we are so easily seduced, as that which dignifies itself by the appearance of business and by making the loiterer imagine that he has something to do which must not be neglected, keeps him in perpetual agitation and hurries him rapidly from place to place.

Unnecessary busyness doesn’t just hurt our work; it hurts our families, too. When we are so busy that we neglect our kids, we try to make up for it by overscheduling their lives. Kids today have half as much free time as they did three decades ago. In the past twenty years, American kids have lost about four unstructured hours each week.

As Rebecca Rosen explains in The Atlantic, our busyness has changed our entire society’s relationship to time. In 1965, German sociologist Erwin Scheuch found that as nations industrialize, their citizens cram more and more into each day. Scheuch called this process “time-deepening”—a misleading phrase, Rosen notes, because we actually feel shallower, not deeper, when we do this.

Perhaps the most significant technology of modern life, Rosen argues, is not the steam engine, the computer, or the cell phone, but the clock. We are so much more conscious of it than our ancestors were. And as a result, we feel time moving faster.

When we need a break, Rosen suggests, we need to unplug not only from our screens, but also from our clocks. It is not just the decade-old beeping and buzzing that unbalances us, but also the centuries-old intrusions of work, productivity, and busyness in our lives outside the office.

This excerpt from How to Get Away was published on Fast Company. Find out more about How to Get Away here.

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Four Meaningful Gifts for Your Valentine

Gifting can be hard, so we have curated a collection of meaningful gifts to give this Valentine’s Day. Think your less traditional chocolates and flowers, and more thoughtful ways to bring you both together.

There’s a special thing we like to say about going on a Getaway, which is that we provide you with everything you need and nothing you don’t. Gift giving can be a challenge in that respect – why clutter with more “things,” when really the ultimate gift is just one another? That’s why we’ve compiled a very short list of some very no frills things that will surprise, delight, and reconnect you with your loved one – whether it’s a partner, a child, or maybe even just falling more deeply in love with yourself.

Monthly Plant Subscription

Plants on Table

As minimalist houseplant company, The Sill, tries to remind us, plants make people happy. Bring a piece of the natural world inside and give your partner (and/or yourself) the ongoing gift of greenery. Learn how to tend to a plant, and bask in that humid glow.

We like this pet-friendly plant subscription.

Photo Book

Essentials

Savor those special moments. Buy a photo book and fill it with cherished places, artifacts, and memories you’ve spent together. Bonus points if you leave space for your future adventures together.

Try this one from Artifact Uprising.

Cooking Class

Chop tomatoes.
Chop tomatoes.

There’s that not-quite-yet tired cliche that food is the language of love. Gift a cooking class and learn how to create delicious meals for each other from scratch.

Try the handmade pasta class at Taste Buds Kitchen or check out the vegan options at Natural Gourmet Institute.

Time Spent Together

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The best thing about Valentine’s Day is spending time together. Give the gift of an unforgettable few days of disconnection, a stay when time seems to stretch right before your very eyes.

We believe in getting back in touch with what matters, especially time with loved ones. There’s no better time to celebrate and reconnect than Valentine’s Day.

For Your Free Time

Our Favorite Conversation Starters

One thing we love hearing after our guests have returned from their cabin stays is that they connected more deeply with their partner, their sibling, their parent, their friend, once they were away from their daily distractions. It seems inevitable that with time away from screens and stress, and time spent in nature, we start reflecting on larger themes and questions in our lives, and we start asking our loved ones deeper questions.

Here are some of our favorite questions to ask to get to know our family and friends better.

  • What is your favorite childhood memory?
  • If you could’ve been born anywhere else, where would you have wanted to grow up, and why?
  • What’s your go-to stress reliever?
  • What songs have you memorized?
  • If your life was a book or a movie, what would the title be, and why?
  • What song, movie, or book has meant the most to you, and why?
  • Describe your perfect weekend.
  • What is something you really want to learn, and why?
  • What is your favorite place that you’ve traveled to, and why?
  • If you could become bilingual in another language right now, what language would you choose?
  • Which if your friends or family do you look up to most?
  • What were some of your favorite hobbies when you were a kid, and what are your favorite hobbies now?
  • What’s your favorite city, and why?
  • Where is your favorite place in nature, and why?
  • What’s the wildest thing you’ve ever done?
  • What pets did you have when you were growing up?
  • What’s the most important element to strong friendships?
  • What’s something small that always makes your day better?
  • What food couldn’t you live without?
  • What’s your most-worn piece of clothing?
  • What’s the most impressive thing you know how to do?
  • What’s one question that you’d most like to know the answer to?
  • What’s something that you think everyone should do in their lives?
  • Who inspires you?
  • What are your favorite smells?
  • What’s something you’ll never do again?
  • What’s the most memorable gift you’ve received? What’s the most memorable gift that you’ve given?
  • What are you most grateful that your parents taught you?
  • What are your favorite and least favorite things about getting older?
  • What’s one responsibility you wish you didn’t have?
  • What’s the best and worst advice you’ve ever received?
  • What small gestures from strangers have meant the most to you?
  • What personality traits do you value the most?
  • What do you bring with you wherever you go?
  • Who was your most interesting teacher in high school or college?
  • What question have you not asked me?
  • What is the most amazing true story you’ve ever heard?
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Want to reserve some time off in nature to ask someone these questions? Book your getaway today.