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Wellness Tip: Deep Questions to Ask Loved Ones

In the 2015 essay for The New York Times, “To Fall in Love with Anyone, Do This,” Mandy Len Catron wrote about a study psychologist Dr. Arthur Aron had conducted at Stony Brook University 20 years earlier. 

Aron wanted to explore whether it was possible to create feelings of closeness between people who didn’t know each other. To do so, he asked pairs of strangers to sit in his lab and talk to each other for 45 minutes — some made casual small talk while others were given a set of 36 questions to ask each other, questions that grew more and more personal as the list went on. 

By the end of the session, two of the strangers who’d asked each other deep questions had fallen in love. Six months later, they got married and invited everyone from the lab to the wedding.

Catron took the 36 questions from Aron’s experiment on a first date to try them out herself, and her experiment worked – she and her date fell in love. But this isn’t just a story about romance, she cautions: “It’s about what it means to bother to know someone, which is really a story about what it means to be known.”

Here are the first five of Aron’s questions to start asking your loved ones to get to know them, and yourself, even better. 

1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, who would you want as a dinner guest?

2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?

3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?

4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you? 

5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?

If you’re talking with a partner, take turns answering each question, alternating who answers first each time. Make eye contact as you answer. Remember to be honest, even if it makes you feel nervous or vulnerable.

Additionally, be an active listener —  there’s no point in asking deep questions if you zone out during the answers. Push your conversations further by asking follow-up questions and challenging basic assumptions, including: 

  • Why do you think that?
  • Have you always felt this way?
  • What caused you to change your mind?

You don’t need to replicate a landmark psychological study to get into the habit of asking deep questions. Next time you find yourself engaging in small talk about work or weather, switch gears and ask your companions something more meaningful.

Ready to make meaningful connections? Book your Getaway today.

Local Guides | Washington, DC

Where to Find Balance in DC

We all could benefit from bringing more balance into our lives. Our busy work and social calendars can burn us out and tire us out easily. That’s why we’re bringing you a series of recommendations for the best places to find disconnection and balance. We still believe leaving the city is the best way to recharge, but that’s not always possible, so it’s important to find sanctuaries even in the middle of our cities.

Here are some of our recommendations for our favorite places to find restoration in D.C.

For Meditation

Meditation

Get in your dose of deep breathing and relaxation at recharj in downtown D.C. With a goal of delivering “peace of mind in a noisy city,” this studio offers everything from meditation classes to power nap sessions. Join a class or schedule a private session and let your everyday stressors roll off your shoulders.

For Greenery

Trees

One way to relax is by making sure you get a healthy amount of nature and sunshine. Take a break from the city and stroll through part of this 1,754 acre park. Rock Creek Park was one of the first federally managed parks in the United States and it currently offers hikes, picnic spots, and even horseback riding.

For Yoga

Yoga

If you’re looking to disconnect by strengthening yourself and your body, book a class with Down Dog Yoga. With four locations in the D.C. area, this studio offers classes in Baptiste Power Yoga, blending “strength, sweat, and spirituality.”

Cabin

These are all great practices to build balance back into your routine. Sometimes nothing beats a quick and simple escape from the city.

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Wine Pairings for your Campfire Cookout

Those of us immersed in the buying, selling, growing and making of wine are often called on to answer the all-important question of what to drink in every given situation. So, we at Early Mountain winery in central Virginia are thrilled to share our recommendations for the campfire. Some reflections:

You are an expert
Every wine drinker is an expert in their own tastebuds so speak with confidence at your favorite wine shop- sharing what flavors you generally like (feel free to use beer, cocktails, or wines you currently love as a reference) and don’t apologize for your preferences. If you like sweet and
fruit driven flavors, citrus, spice, or a bit of edgy bitterness a knowledgeable wine salesperson can guide you appropriately. We promise it will work better than grabbing the prettiest label.

Consider the food
Don’t get hung up with “rules” but some basic reference points can help guide you – sweet flavors (s’mores, anyone?) do best with fruit driven or sweet wines (Lambrusco, fresh young reds such as the Early Mountain Soif blend). Grilled pineapple shines with a demi-sec sparkling or Chenin Blanc. Grilled flavors sing with wines touched by smoky oak (Cabernet Franc, barrel aged Chardonnays). Mild flavors of seafood and veggies benefit from a zip of acidity (Sauvignon Blanc, Petit Manseng).

Drink Local
We encourage you to skip the supermarket mass brands and instead pop into a local wine shop or local winery to see what is happening close to your Getaway. Whether central Virginia, upstate NY, or Texas hill country, the last 10 years have brought an incredible surge in passionate quality winemaking in lesser known regions. And many of these wines don’t make it beyond their state borders, so make your Getaway a chance to discover something new.

And we’ll let you in on a secret – any wine tastes better when you’re relaxed, tuned out, and surrounded by friends. So pretty much any choice will be a win.

Find out more about Early Mountain here, or book an escape to Getaway Shenandoah and be sure to check them out on the way there or back.

Early Mountain Vineyards is just a short drive from Getaway Shenandoah, and home to an award-winning tasting room and sprawling vineyards. We asked them for tips on how to pair wine for your next campfire cooking session.

Local Guides | Orlando

Explore Postcard Cabins Gilchrist Springs

Located just two hours outside of Orlando in High Springs, Fl, Postcard Cabins Gilchrist Springs is nestled in a bustling town with plenty of spots to explore. Here are a few of the spots we’d recommend you check out while you’re on your escape.

Walks in the Woods

River Sink Trail
Distance: 1.5 miles
Difficulty: easy
Dogs allowed
This trail takes about half an hour to complete, perfect for a quick morning hike through the pine forest around Santa Fe River and the area’s springs.

Paraners Branch Loop Trail
Distance: 4.4 miles
Difficulty: moderate
Dogs allowed

For a longer hike, check out Paraners Branch Loop, which takes about an hour and twenty minutes through shaded woods to complete.

Ginnie Springs
Distance: 3.3 miles
Difficulty: moderate
Dogs not allowed

Ginnie Springs is the perfect hike for the warmest summer days—this trail circles around the spring, and it’s a popular spot for swimming and tubing. There’s even a storefront near the entrance of this trail where you can rent kayaks and paddleboards to cool off in the spring.

Sustenance and Snacks

High Springs Farmer’s Market
~ 14 minutes away
To support local farmers and get a taste of the area, head to High Springs Farmer’s Market to stock up on ingredients for your favorite campfire recipes.

Bev’s Burger Café
~ 16 minutes away
Head to Bev’s Burger Café after a late morning hike for the best burgers in town before heading back to your cabin for a nap.

High Springs Brewing Company
~ 14 minutes away
Try some local brews at the family-owned and operated, High Springs Brewing Company.

Things to Do Around the Cabins

Kanapaha Botanical Gardens
~ 35 minutes away
Head to Kanapaha Botanical Gardens to stroll through 24 collections of beautiful flowers and other plants. This botanical garden also includes the state’s largest public display of bamboos.

Devil’s Millhopper Geological State Park
~ 26 minutes away
This natural landmark has been drawing crowds since the 1880s—you’ll find a 120-feet deep natural bowl-shaped sinkhole with a beautiful rainforest within it.

Butterfly Rainforest at the Florida Museum of Natural History
~ 35 minutes away
Head to the Florida Museum of Natural History to step into their Butterfly Rainforest to get up close to hundreds of butterflies, birds, turtles, and fish. This is the perfect day trip from the cabins for families.

Ready to book an escape to Postcard Cabins Gilchrist Springs? Find cabins near Orlando.

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Campfire Cooking: Little Sesame’s “Wild Sesame” Campfire Shakshuka

There’s something about cooking over a campfire that feels deeply restorative.

Perhaps it’s stirring your favorite recipe over the comforting heat of the flames. Maybe it’s the slower pace of naturally cooking versus the quick fix of the microwave back home in the city. Whatever pleasure it gives you, it just makes the meal that much more memorable.

Photo by Obi Okolo

Last Spring, we partnered with local DC restaurant Little Sesame for Wild Sesame, a weekend adventure at Getaway that included meals over the campfire, music, hikes, nature walks, yoga, and much, much more.

Among the many meals we carefully cooked over the fire was the Middle Eastern  / North African favorite: shakshuka. The tomato-based dish made for a hearty and downright delicious breakfast on our meal before we hit the road back. Little Sesame shares how to cook their Wild Sesame Campfire Shakshuka below.

Little Sesame’s “Wild Sesame” Campfire Shakshuka

Ingredients

  • 1 ½ tablespoons Extra Virgin olive oil 
  • 1 white onion, medium diced
  • 6 ea roasted red peppers, peeled and medium diced
  • 5 ea Roma tomatoes, medium dice (if not tomato season you can substitute a small can of whole peeled tomatoes)
  • 2 cloves garlic, thinly sliced
  • 2 tablespoons tomato paste
  • 1 teaspoon cumin
  • 1 tablespoon smoked paprika
  • Salt and Pepper, to taste
  • ½ cup water
  • 1/2 bunch cilantro, picked and chopped
  • Salt and Pepper, to taste
  • 8 eggs 
  • Handful fresh mint, torn (optional)
  • Handful fresh flat leaf parsley, torn (optional)

Heat olive oil in a large cast iron skillet, when hot, stir in onions and sauté until onions become translucent. Add roasted peppers, sauté for two more minutes. Stir in tomatoes, garlic tomato paste, cumin and paprika, sauté for another 2-3 minutes, add water and toss in cilantro; stir well. Lower the flame to a simmer and let sauce cook for 10 to 15 minutes. Season to taste. Crack eggs into the sauce and cook until whites are just set (and yolks are still runny). Garnish with fresh mint or parsley – or both. Dish up individual servings or eat right out of the pan with your favorite bread.

WIld Sesame Shakshuka Close Up
Photo by Obi Okolo


Wild Sesame will be back at Getaway in May 2020. Follow us to be the first to hear more about it, and keep up with Little Sesame here.

Artist Fellowship

Meet our Artist Fellows

With the hustle and bustle of city life, we know it can be hard for artists to find uninterrupted time to create. That’s why we created our Artist Fellowship Program, to give creatives a space in nature to work on their projects. We love seeing what our artists come up with and we’re excited to share some of our recent fellows.

Julia Kuo has been sketching since college, and you can find her with a travel sketchbook wherever she goes. She often finds inspiration in the day-to-day, by seeing something beautiful – in nature, people, occasionally buildings, and wanting to capture it herself.

Julia headed to Getaway Beaver Creek with her boyfriend, two friends, and two dogs. They ventured out to Beaver Creek State Park, hiked the Vondergreen Trail, and settled into their cabin to roast veggies over the fire and listen to the frogs croaking into the evening.

That change of pace is exactly what Julia would want for a dream creative project. “My dream is to follow a team of researchers to McMurdo Station in Antarctica and record everything they do in drawings,” she explains.

Katie Commodore knew she’d be an artist from a young age. When she was in elementary school, she recalls imagining she’d be an astronaut, testing low gravity paints by being the first to paint the Martian landscape.

She currently resides in Rhode Island, where she works across a variety of subject matters – from our embroidered landscapes to tackling subjects like identity and sexuality.

As for her dream project: “I love designing wallpaper and patterns. I’d love to create an immersive environment where the patterns are all-encompassing, but at the same time allow for a moment of calm for the viewer. There is a bit of peace that seems to happen when you’re surrounded by chaos and color, where, as your eyes wander and try and absorb everything your brain has a moment to only focus on what you can take in and the constant worries of the day don’t have space to run around your thoughts.”

“When you have a solid studio practice, you wind up always working towards the next show/the next commission/the next project, and you never have time to do something really different than what you normally do. I do use embroidery in my studio practice, but I haven’t done a landscape in probably 15 years.” Of her Getaway, she notes, “It was a wonderful reminder that not everything I create has to be for something or have a further purpose. I can just create little moments and have them just be that.”

Looking for a creative break? Book your escape to nature here.

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Campfire Cooking: Vegan Mango Habanero Glazed Skewers

One of our favorite ways to relax and connect with others here at Getaway is by sharing a meal or a favorite recipe. We reached out to Danielle of @therealveganmayo for some of her favorite recipes that she cooked on her Getaway. Here’s the recipe for her delicious Vegan Mango Habanero Glazed Skewers.

Vegan Mango Habanero Glaze

Makes enough glaze for roughly 5-6 skewers.

Ingredients:

  • 2 garlic cloves, minced
  • 1/2 cup unrefined coconut sugar
  • 1/4 cup finely chopped fresh mango
  • 1/2 habanero pepper finely chopped (include some seeds if you like a little heat)
  • 1/2 tbsp apple cider vinegar
  • 1 tbsp soy sauce
  • 1/2 tsp liquid smoke
  • 2 tbsp apple juice
  • 1/2 tbsp olive oil (adjust as needed)

Instructions: 

  1. On medium high heat add oil to pan and let warm. Once warm, add minced garlic cloves, habanero pepper and liquid smoke to pan and heat for 2 minutes and 30 seconds until fragrant and slightly browned.
  2. Add the rest of your ingredients except your coconut sugar and heat on medium for 3 minutes, mixing frequently. 
  3. Once that is completed, add your coconut sugar and mix well to incorporate all ingredients. Let simmer for 4:30-5 minutes on medium heat, lower heat to low and let stand for 2 minutes. Once glaze thickens a bit, brush onto your skewers and add them to your grill, cook and then enjoy! 

Options for skewers: vegan beef and chicken chunks (available on plantsleadourway.com—you can use code “MAYO” to save you $10 on your order, or check your local grocery store for available options near you. We also used mushrooms, tomatoes, onions, and green bell pepper. We paired it with some fresh guacamole, quinoa, mango salsa, and a lime wedge.

Looking forward to cooking in nature again? Book your Getaway today.

Indianapolis | Local Guides | Midwest

Explore Postcard Cabins Brown County

Located just one hour outside of Indianapolis in Columbus, IN, Postcard Cabins Brown County is nestled in a bustling town with plenty of spots to explore. Here are a few of the spots we’d recommend you check out while you’re on your escape.

Walks in the Woods

Shawnee and Lenape Loop
Distance: 1.9 miles
Difficulty: easy
Dogs allowed
This hike is perfect for bird-watching, trail-running, or simply a morning walk. This trail takes about forty minutes to complete, and it’s beautiful year-round.

Pauline Crump Nature Preserve
Distance: 1.4 miles
Difficulty: easy
Dogs allowed

For a slow morning stroll, head to Pauline Crump Nature Preserve and try the walking trail. You’ll likely get the whole place to yourself. You can even bring your fishing poles to relax beside the creek.

Tangeman Woods Loop
Distance: 1.0 mile
Difficulty: easy
Dogs allowed

Tangeman Woods Loop is the perfect trail to explore the area’s forest, and it’s likely you’ll come across a turtle or two crossing your path.

Sustenance and Snacks

Meyer Grocery
~ 12 minutes away
Make a pitstop at Meyer Grocery before getting to the cabins to pick up all of the ingredients for your favorite campfire recipes.

Zaharakos
~ 26 minutes away
Head to Zaharakos after a campfire dinner or a long hike for the sweetest ice cream treats in town.

Lucabe Coffee Co
~ 26 minutes away
Head to Lucabe Coffee Co for the best cup of joe in town.

Things to Do Around the Cabins

Columbus Bowling Center
~ 30 minutes away
When was the last time you went to a bowling alley? Head to Columbus Bowling Center on your next getaway to bring back some memories and make some new ones.

Putt-Putt Fun Center
~ 30 minutes away
Head to Putt-Putt Fun Center for an afternoon of mini golf with those who matter most.

Hard Truth Tours & Tasting Center
~ 20 minutes away
Just twenty minutes from the cabins you can find the largest destination craft distillery. The distillery has a full-service restaurant, and offers tours of the distillery and even guided ATV tours of the 325 wooded acres of their property to teach you about the history of distilling.

Copperhead Creek Gem Mine
~ 20 minutes away
If you’re looking for a unique experience for your family, head to Copperhead Creek Gem Mine to mine for fossils and gems.

Ready to book an escape to Postcard Cabins Brown County? Find cabins near Indianapolis